Starters

What was the last lie you told?

You’ll you do it again since people tell 7-10 lies in a conversation.

What makes someone most attractive?

What would you talk about in a therapy session?

The reason I haven’t found MR right is because I’m still fucked up from MR WRONG!

I allowed someone to cause me pain and break me.

I wasn’t disciplined in dating .

I’m going to take my time by setting boundaries and being disciplined.

The point in dating is to see if I can have a marriage.

Breaking up with someone isn’t a divorce . It’s simple. Yeah you aren’t the one for me, this isn’t working . You don’t have the qualities I’m looking for.

My heart deserves my protection.

He took half of me and it fucked me up.

I am looking for someone to PROMISE me for better or for worse, til death do us part, for richer or for poorer. Did you promise me that? Communication like that could be false statements. Pastor said don’t make promises.

I let a boyfriend now ex bf take half my heart with him when he left me.

I let a boyfriend crush my spirit .

A narcissist.

A fuck boy. The more I hear that name I dislike it more and more so I let someone who wasn’t enough for me change my spirit.

A selfish person.

A real selfish person stepped on my spirit before he even got the opportunity to ask me to marry him.

The reason I didn’t get married or engaged is because something wasn’t right.

Did God create marriage?

I’m vowing to myself I AM not doing married things prior to getting married .

If you keep doing what you always get you’re going to keep getting what you always got. Which is true.

Some of y’all are in relationships only because you have kids, not because you have a ring.

Some of y’all are in relationships because y’all got a lease together and you both are dependent on each other to survive. That’s not love .

Where is your ring?

Some of y’all are still in a relationship because y’all got “so much history”

If you are dating with serious intentions, take it serious.

Ration. Ration how often you guys talk. It’s not that you have to talk everyday. But you have to make sure you are leaving with a clear mind to be able to discern.

It’s hard to recognize if this person is discenered from God if y’all having sexual relationships every night.

You got that big head in your face all the time you can’t even see the scriptures.

Stop letting these unhealthy attachments get any further. B/c that’ll lead to having a baby together. Then all that because an unhealthy judgement that clouds ur brain to figure out if he is going to be a good husband or not.

Woman stop doing wifey shit for a man that isn’t putting a ring on it.

Let me see your resume . Let me see what you have done. Show me some skills that you have.

It’s not I’m hiring you. You don’t just get full benefits and full access to me whenever you want it.

Marriage isn’t just a piece of paper.

How about when you can’t walk or talk who is going to make health care decisions for you?

I’m done pouring into empty cups and expecting them to pour back.

I fell in love with your representative that means I fell “in love” with who you pretended to be the first few weeks I met you.

You showed me your true character after we moved in together.

I tried to fix a man who was broken and he turned around and broke me.

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Rhythm Gift

Each and everyday I’m just going day by day.

The alphabet doesn’t equal A-Z anymore it’s B-Y.

Y because I needed to see.

I see you now and that’s not my cup of tea.

In my dream it was you and her.

Imma get in my car and skirt.

Put in that work and it’ll pay off.

I let the pain come because that’s what you showed me the moment I met you.

I was more a trophy for you.

Cuz you never had a diamond so precious so rare or one to spare.

It put you through a scare.

Don’t you dare the red flags. 🚩

You just wanted to tag me along to boost your ego.

But you tagged me.

To put a label to yourself.

You had no drama in your life.

I gave you life.

I made you roll the dice.

You couldn’t figure out which number went to which.

You made me stay threatening your life if I leave.

Time to depart.

The universe is calling me.

Make that mind set in being wealthy or famous. Therefore it will b shined in you. I’ve always been vibrant and full of energy.

He is gifted.

She is gifted.

~BL

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The Meeting

They’ll never regret meeting you. You were the best mistake ever made. All the tears that were shed, all the time lost, and the overthinking they did weren’t in vain because they taught them to never give love out so freely ever again. See, what was learned is you’re required to forgive those that have done you wrong in the past.

Not settling for nothing or nobody until one you take their feelings into consideration. Two if They cared enough to explain then care enough to listen. If you can go a few days without talking to me or even them you can go many more, just know this ain’t (is not) that! “This is not it.”

Presently writing, we don’t play them games, nor like mediocre, mediocre bores the fuck out of me. It makes my flesh burn.

Stop playing with me.

The mind is going to be your prize. It’s ALL about your approach.

Although it is simple enough to share all of your traumas and pain with someone else, it could help you understand what anyone has been through. Then you started taking advantage of the opportunity you shared with them.

Sharing that part of who you are may help you GENTLY work with them so you can become a we, then a YOU AND I could heal together!

It wasn’t who feels worse or who is right. It was supposed to be about taking the time to truly understand someone else’s insecurities and fears.

You never truly listened instead you’d say I don’t want to hear about your drama.

Their relationship is an emotional roller coaster 🎢 both need to take responsibility.

What part do you take?

Know your part.

Or;

Use this conflict to bring you closer to me

Conflicts are resolved majority of the time.

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Along With

Are you serious right now? I just got here to get some work going but I’ve been fed up with some distractions surrounded around me that completely threw off my way of getting things going in my way of being accomplished.

The way you think you can maneuver through someone else’s path and way of success is belittling.

If I was the one hiring some of you. If I noticed one friendship, I might fire you. That’s the way someone is trying to perceive your lifestyle isn’t it? All jokes aside. Have fun in life, build those relationships and making sure you know what you are doing in your day to day activities.

Work hard, then go travel with your friends or without is what I’ve seen those that work forty plus (40+) hours per week.

Some of you just jump started your own career and started a business to turn around to hire some people on your career to make money and move along with you.

When I hear or see the word career. A career is not something that is yours, a career is shared interest that gets you working with some others that can help you progress in life and in your finances.

You went to college or had some on-job site training that made you have the talent you have unless you were just born into pure talent.

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Been There Too CA-POW

This year has been so different. This is the longest I have been without being in a relationship with someone else and I can tell you it has been a challenge and it has offered so many differently new experiences but what sucks is when the past creeps and steps back up just when you think it’s your time. Weird how your past seems to overrule your future.

When you try to move on with a new mindset there will be someone in the back trying to control the way you think and feel by bringing up your past so at this point you can mind your own business. A flaw I’ve noticed is when you try to live on to make new with someone else if they aren’t on the same flow as you then they will try to make their family interfere with your life and that’s a loaf of smooshed bread on a hot summer day if you ask anyone really.

Some people are not capable of making new relationships since they are surrounded by people they’ve been friends with for years so there will be that special connection they have with their friends when you’re around. And that is something one may cherish and one may even take advantage of those friendships or relationships and throughout my studying I’ve seen that. It really can make or break a mind and connection.

Feeing as if you have to be constantly moving in a way that is going to make you successful is a feeling that you can’t ever let go of. Making it or not. You don’t have to keep going and that’s a reality that some don’t want to reveal. You are who you are. If you want to keep running around and being on the go then that’s your confident decision.

Not everything is solely on family. If you’re upset, block someone and see how they are towards you. If it’s online or in the sight just block or ignore them because not everyone is significant if your life which is a reality that is known by all.

Are you driven?

Are you focused?

Is your career over with? Or are you still searching?

Listen. But don’t listen entirely much more than you may need to. The ones who seem like they love ahead of you are the ones who actually are moving back. Hypothetically speaking on one special someone. No names mentioned because that’s unnecessary and that’s when one tries to play a blame game. Are your people as real as those authentic tacos? You know that answer.

Although the unknown but known pertains to each day you wake. You have to know where your future is. Being alone is something no one wants but when you have a team trying to make you feel that way that’s when you must step in and make those changes because they have deeper issues to deal with then to attack someone else along the lines of the ones you may or may not know or the ones you have mutual friendships in.

You can’t always lose in life. From personal experience failure is only temporary. Temporary people will always be temporary but only until you meet them again later on in the near.

Being solely reliant on someone else to being solely reliant on yourself to being reliant on another is a repeating pattern. So I will never trust anyone who says they did it alone because that would be selfish. If you are around people you ARE not doing it alone. Point blank.

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