The reason I haven’t found MR right is because I’m still fucked up from MR WRONG!

I allowed someone to cause me pain and break me.

I wasn’t disciplined in dating .

I’m going to take my time by setting boundaries and being disciplined.

The point in dating is to see if I can have a marriage.

Breaking up with someone isn’t a divorce . It’s simple. Yeah you aren’t the one for me, this isn’t working . You don’t have the qualities I’m looking for.

My heart deserves my protection.

He took half of me and it fucked me up.

I am looking for someone to PROMISE me for better or for worse, til death do us part, for richer or for poorer. Did you promise me that? Communication like that could be false statements. Pastor said don’t make promises.

I let a boyfriend now ex bf take half my heart with him when he left me.

I let a boyfriend crush my spirit .

A narcissist.

A fuck boy. The more I hear that name I dislike it more and more so I let someone who wasn’t enough for me change my spirit.

A selfish person.

A real selfish person stepped on my spirit before he even got the opportunity to ask me to marry him.

The reason I didn’t get married or engaged is because something wasn’t right.

Did God create marriage?

I’m vowing to myself I AM not doing married things prior to getting married .

If you keep doing what you always get you’re going to keep getting what you always got. Which is true.

Some of y’all are in relationships only because you have kids, not because you have a ring.

Some of y’all are in relationships because y’all got a lease together and you both are dependent on each other to survive. That’s not love .

Where is your ring?

Some of y’all are still in a relationship because y’all got “so much history”

If you are dating with serious intentions, take it serious.

Ration. Ration how often you guys talk. It’s not that you have to talk everyday. But you have to make sure you are leaving with a clear mind to be able to discern.

It’s hard to recognize if this person is discenered from God if y’all having sexual relationships every night.

You got that big head in your face all the time you can’t even see the scriptures.

Stop letting these unhealthy attachments get any further. B/c that’ll lead to having a baby together. Then all that because an unhealthy judgement that clouds ur brain to figure out if he is going to be a good husband or not.

Woman stop doing wifey shit for a man that isn’t putting a ring on it.

Let me see your resume . Let me see what you have done. Show me some skills that you have.

It’s not I’m hiring you. You don’t just get full benefits and full access to me whenever you want it.

Marriage isn’t just a piece of paper.

How about when you can’t walk or talk who is going to make health care decisions for you?

I’m done pouring into empty cups and expecting them to pour back.

I fell in love with your representative that means I fell “in love” with who you pretended to be the first few weeks I met you.

You showed me your true character after we moved in together.

I tried to fix a man who was broken and he turned around and broke me.

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